Friday, May 27, 2011

Crush? Love? Obsession?

"Umm, Look over there, Isn't that guy/girl cute?", " I think I'm in love with him/her." "Though I know we are friends, I don't think Its the same for me now. I think I'm falling for him/her." These are the words we hear or say every now and then. As we enter our teenage life, we see life full of possibilities and then there comes a point where your priorities keep shifting  from one thing to another. As far as love is concerned, an average teenager falls in and out of love in more then 80% of their time. There is no consistency in our lives. What is love? One might ask. Everyone have different ideas, different definitions. Its not something one can impose on another person. From what I've notice, No one really knows what love is and when will it come in their life. Every new crush becomes their obsession and once its over, one feels heartbroken as if the life is finished but then they come across someone new and it starts all over again. How to know if the person you're with is the right one for you? This is the question that pops up in everyone's mind. The simple things, care, compassion as different in couples as two fingerprints being compared. Different people have different standards when it comes to love. Love can be materialistic to some or some might find the deeper meaning of it. Some are content being alone since they think that it might not last for them. But then its not how life goes on. The reality is that risks are what make life beautiful and love is the biggest risk anyone can every take. The blissful feeling of someone completing your soul, like you have found your lost puzzle piece. Believing is all what it takes. Not every relation is supposed to have getting end up together but its the respect the other person gives you. Your uniqueness with how your relation is makes you different. So don't let go of the one you love. Just hold on but also keep in mind that love is not the permission given to anyone to let you down or make you feel bad. If its love you'll be the happiest person on the face of the earth and if its wrong in any way nothing will lift you up. Be sure of what your priorities are. After all as I say "Love is the Obsession you have with you Crush."

2 comments:

  1. Quite meaningful...right in my state of mind, it makes plenty of sense to me :-)

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  2. "A man is already half way in love with the woman who talks to him" Cant remember now where I read this quote :p

    If you love someone, love the way they are, not the way you want them to be :)

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