Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Just the way you are


When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

This is what every girl dreams of being told by her guy. She has her own little world all wrapped around him and everything starts and ends at him. She wants to feel special and needs to be told that she has the place in his world that nobody can ever replace. Lots of stuff that have huge importance wouldn't matter to her, yet littlest possible attention, care, & love makes her feel out of the world. Every now and then, girls with broken hearts and teary eyes find someone who was meant just for them all along. He completes their world. Scared at first, they let themselves loose and risk another chance even knowing maybe this wouldn't end the way they think it would. Every heartbreak, every pain they came across slowly fades away. They feel like being healed from the inside. They finally start believing in the love they have lost their hope in. The guy makes them feel proud of who they are and  what they do. They start to regain the self esteem they have apparently lost. After all love isn't just about compromising, it's about compassion and how two people respect and understand each other, trusting with their darkest secrets, sharing every joy and sorrow, being there, holding each other and helping to get through stuff and completing each other. All one has to do, even after the holding on to the broken pieces of their heart is to just wait for the right one to come along.The one to whom, you'll mean the world, the one who would complete you in every possible way, the one who's simplest words will tell you your worth. So take chance, discover the world and simply just live your life and the one you always have dreamt of will walk through your life and make it beautiful. <3

Monday, September 20, 2010

The Sinking boat

Life, sometimes feels like a sinking boat. People come into your boat and their betrayal, their lies just make huge holes and you feel like sinking deep into the realm of darkness. All the aura of light, happiness, joy starts to disappear. It feels as if your life is painted black and no matter how you try, you just can't find your way out. People just see their pain, lean on you and when you are of no use for them, they'll leave just cause your heart misery and leave you behind. To them, the priority is not you, but loads of other thing where as you find yourself crying in the middle of the night over them. You'll break from so many places that you wont even know where to start mending yourself. You stop trusting others as well, the ones to whom you mean something and you start pushing them away. It becomes hard to trust you own self as well. What we need to realize here is that no matter how afraid we are, we should refrain from hurting our self for someone who's not even worth it. Why cry for someone who's not even there to catch you when you fall. Go out, move on, take risks and you might come across things you wouldn't even have ever dreamt of. A very close friend of mine told me that "Every movie we see, Every story we're told, in a way or two begs us to wait for it, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope. - 'he's just not that into you'. " Love, is indefinitely a part of life, but you should never let it ruin your life for you. Somewhere, somehow, you have to put your foot down and learn to get back up on your own and live your life the way you want to.